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*riplej05
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and have yet to do anything past making out. We both want to go further, but everytime I attempt to take the next step, she just gets really awkward and starts poking me. I try to be really calm and make her comfortable, but nothing works. It is really starting to get on my nerves and I have told her this. We get along pretty well besides that. Do you think it is worth staying in a relationship and try to wait for her to get more comfortable or should I just move on?
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reader, triplej05 +, writes (25 March 2008):
triplej05 is verified as being by the original poster of the question She is the one who has actually brought up going onto the next step, but its not just sex. Anything past making out thats what she ends up doing. I think poking is what she does does when shes nervous, but won't get past it.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (23 March 2008):
It does sound as if only one side wants it to go further at this point. Only you can answer if waiting is an option or not however a relationship you are considering abandoning because you cant get your end away doesnt sound that strong.If you have talked about things then what is her reasons for going from romantic to juvinial fun? Whilst you say you are trying to make her comfortable are you still trying to jump from "1st base" to 5th without having explored the others sufficiently?
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