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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, everyone. I've been seeing this guy on and off for just under a year, and we've had some issues. He's very apt to spend days, sometimes weeks without calling me or seeing me, and this is a long distance relationship, so talking daily means more. I don't blame him for not being able to talk or text constantly, he works a lot of hours and is usually very tired, but there are times that he willfully ignores me. Currently, we're not dating each other exclusively and I'm generally okay with that, except that I have a hard time bringing myself to go on the dates that I'm asked out on. Even if I pluck up the courage to accept, I always call and cancel later because I feel like I'm cheating on him.How can I get to the point of being able to date other people? He does, why can't I?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 January 2010):
He does, because he wants nothing more than a casual relationship. You can't just date, because you want more. The answer is you need to let him go and move on if you want to date other people.
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