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We are dating and she doesn't text me as often as I'd like to!

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Question - (2 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ggy writes:

Right...

Ive been seeing (not a relationship yet) this girl since sunday, and we got along really well and all. that, but ever since i got home on sunday, her texts are really few and far between, I used to get constant texts from her, and she was jokin to me about on sunday how i take so long to text back, but now its completely the other way round, she never texts me 1st anymore, and when i do text her im lucky to get a reply, if she does reply she takes about 3 hours to reply or she wont text back until i send another one askin if she got my last text, and she'll just reply with "sorry bbe" or "left my phone in the car", then when i reply to that one she doesnt text back again.

So anyway last night i sent her a text asking if ive done something wrong, and she replied "no why do u thnk that ? ive just been busy, anyway goodnight" with a luv u and a lot of x's. That was the first and last text i got that day, and this is the next day i still have'nt received a text from her, its went to 30-40 texts a day, to 1 or 2. I dont know if im just bein paranoid or whatever, but doesnt it seem a little strange ? I just really like her thats all =O. Anyway pleeaaase someone give me some help ?? Pllleeeeaaaassseeee ???

Btw (im 15 shes newly turned 16)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008):

well this has happened to me before not exactly we were going out and it pissed me off how she never texted me and i told her id like to text me more she did but it weakened our relationship so just play her own game

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008):

Hey =]

well sometimes before you go out with someone you like them alot but wierdly when your with a person you realise your perferd them as mate so mabye her feelings changed.

but it could be that mabye she isnt able to answer her phone as she says or shes more busy latley.

just talk to her about it and get things sorted x

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A female reader, unknownlady United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2008):

unknownlady agony auntplay her at her own game.

dont give her as much attention!

dont text her all day and wait until she texts u. stop askin if shes alright with u, play hard to get girls love that.

treat em mean to keep them kean.

shes doin it to u and it seems to be workin lol :)

xx

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