We are both naughty, but we get nervous to be kinky during sex... what should I do??

A female age 30-35, *moothlegs writes:

i really want to do naughty things with my boyfriend but everytime we have sex i get all nervous to do the stuff that i really want to do. im into the kinky stuff and so is he but we never really do it. sex is great though, dont get me wrong. i would just like to spice it up. soooo...any suggestions on what we can do??? any ideas??...please let me know!!!

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