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writes:So I'm now in high school and i thought things have been going really well. I get along with almost everyone, I have the perfect boyfriend, and I hang out in a small group that consist of 5 of my best guy friends. Well lately rumors have been spreading that me and my very best friend lets call him Emilio.. have been doing some things behind my boyfriends back. Mine and Emilio's friendship seems very flirtatious if you were to just meet us. We Joke About Sex, and i hold him like a boyfriend is suppose to hold a girl. Now everyone is saying that he likes me, but i dont believe it. I've seen some signs that kinda give me an idea, but like i said we're always joking so i can't tell if hes serious about itexamples of what he does are: poking, staring, holding, gets nervous if we accidentally become too close, etc.Its not good to say that if I didn't have my bf, there would be a small chance for him. I just want your opinion, what do you think he feels?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): Joking casually about sex with a bunch of guys is just showing yourself as a girl with loose values and yeah, you could probably get him to have sex with you.
I don't think any of the guys you openly joke about sex with would want a girl who does that. They see how you act when you have a boyfriend and no guy wants to be in his position. Start treating your bf with more respect and then another guy will see that and maybe be interested in giving you a chance.
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reader, 1000lies1000sorrys +, writes (9 February 2011):
 guys are a hole lot bolder then girls so just ask him. we guys don't give little sign like girls. guys just tell a girl that they them that girl.
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reader, Mr.Joe +, writes (9 February 2011):
 He may be interested and not making any moves because he respects that you already have a boyfriend. He may seem nervous some times because he is feeling catious at the moment and not want to cross any lines.
The best way to handle this is to just staight out ask him if he has feelings for you that he wants more than just best friends.
Not depending on how that goes, have you talked to your boyfriend about this? He may have some ideas how to handle this. Have you asked any of yours and his friends about what his deal is? They might give you some clues or hints to what's going on. Does he act this way around anyone else, particularly any other girls he may be interested in? This might show that he can get nervous around other girls too.
I hope that this will help you out some. Try to stay positive and good luck.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (9 February 2011):
Not sure if he likes you. Maybe a little. But, what I would advise you to stop doing right now is joking with guys about sex. It makes you look bad. And you definitely do not want to do any of that knowing you have a boyfirend, it makes him look like an idiot. So, stop flirting with your friend before you lose your boyfriend.
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