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writes:Hi, I dated a girl in November we went out a few times and spent a few days staying at my place. Things went really well and we slept together a few times. It was quite intense from the start. We haven't seen each other since the start of December as she's in another town. She's been distant but says it has nothing to do with us and that she's just finding it hard to even talk to people and the she doesn't feel like she can trust anyone. We were mean't to meet up the other week but it didn't happen and she told me this is why. Just yesterday I told her I would delete her number and that it was good to have known her and she came right back telling me she was so very sorry and that she really hasn't been talking to anyone and has felt very low and aimless. She said she still wants to be in contact with me. I sent her a comforting message and some really nice things to ease her head. I don't know what to do. Is she interested? Do you think she's trying to just brush me off? I really like her and the time we spent together was very special, we just 'clicked'. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): She may have been telling you the truth but if she is in a depression- why wait? Is she seeking help?
Sorry but this would be a good enough reason for me to move on. Healthy, Happy people can contribute to a healthy adult relationship effectively and WANT to invest into it.
This is not Her.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Hi,
I think that she really likes you and enjoyed the time you spent together, otherwise she wouldn't even be talking to you after the message you sent her saying that you will end contact. Why bother, right? The problem is the LDR. It's difficult to maintain any relationship when you cant see, spend time, etc. Also, she's probably going through personal difficulties and for some reason is not telling you... She told you that she's not feeling well emotionally, but you don't know what it's? She was honest with you. So, there's a problem, you don't know, but it's you. I'll say, give her some time, and let her explain herself when the right time comes.
Best wishes/good luck
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