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Was my ex abusive?

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Question - (18 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Was my ex abusive? The weekend before I broke up with him we went camping with his friends. We were inside his RV about to go to sleep and I was upset because he was staring at a girl's ass earlier outside. He said I was ridiculous and that because I said that he was going to continue to check girls out in front of me, which obviously hurt my feelings even more. I wanted to talk and resolve this issue, but he got more pissed and just said he was going to sleep. I ripped up a note I gave him and called him a slut, and he grabbed me and he tried to shove me out of his RV and i had nothing on. So, finally i got dressed and then he locked me out. It was 4 in the morning and i just wanted to leave but i had no gas. So, i finally came back and he finally let me back in and he said he knew where I was the whole time (I had driven a little). I asked what he meant and he said I didn't have to worry about it. Did he have a tracking device on my car? Anyway, I know we are broken up but I'm just wondering if I experienced physical abuse, or any kind of abuse that night?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007):

The most abuse you enounted was emotional.

The guy was being a dick, it must be said. Not even allowing you to apologise before he humiliated you.

Look, it is unfair that you would get that pissed off cause he was looking at some other chicks ass (men do this, get over it... its nothing personal, we just like to look at women is all). But his response was disproportionate to the crime.

Dump this asshole and find some guy who isn't a dickhead.

Flynn 24

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