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writes:Ma boyfriend has a new dog so that dog keeps him away from me most of the time. So now the dog is sick which means more time on it more than on me we no longer bond like we used to at first...today i told him am angry because of all that stuff and he suddnely changed telling me that i become angry of stupid thnings which do nnt sound stupid to me....My question is was i wrong to tell him about my corncerns? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 April 2013):
 It is never wrong to tell your partner your concerns and feelings.
if he gets angry well then that's on him.
A new puppy or dog can take a lot of time away from life as you have to train it but it should not take you totally away from everyone else.
Part of relationships is the ebb and flow of time together... sometimes you have to take a back seat to other things.
IF your boyfriend is totally ignoring you or using the dog to avoid being with you perhaps it's time to consider ending the relationship as he may want out of it and doesn't know how to end it properly.
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reader, Ms. Cupid  +, writes (2 April 2013):
No, you're not wrong. First, you're his girlfriend and NOT THE DOG. You're a human after all, you need a time too.
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Ms. Cupid
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