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26-29,
*oxic_oreos
writes:well me and him have been together for 2 weeks. i reallllllllllllly like him.everything was perfect.but he started talking to my ex best friend i trusted him so didnt say anything. but she asked him "am i hot" and he said yes but dont tell jasna [me]i got VERY mad at this and i confronted him he said "how should i know you dont like that you need to tell me these things" so we had a talk and evrything was fine.then today. she tried to get with him again and he did the same thing which was telling her shes hot. im very jelous of this. and he knew how i felt about it and he did it again and he wont stop contacting her but what he dosent know is me and her made up and im seeing evrything he writes when i talk to him about it hesays stop blaming me its her. so i broke up with him.we talked earlier he sounded a little sad. he said "did you want to break up with me" i said no but you keep doing this and we hung up.they keep contacting eachother and wont stop but i like him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo muchi have no idea what to do. help. please.should igo back with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Dont worry about him sweetie hes a prick. If he knew u were upset with it and still did it then he doesnt deserve u. I would be very angry and jealous if my bf said that to another girl. Find someone else who thinks ur gorgeous and hot and not telling everyone else they are.
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reader, t-wett +, writes (20 April 2009):
I'd say give him one more chance. But this time set conditions. Tell him if he starts contacting your friend again, then you guys are through for good! Don't hold what he said about your friend against him, though. So he thinks your friend is hot...big deal! There are plenty of hot women on this earth and he was just being honest, don't take it personal. If he can't live up to his end and still is chasing after your friend, drop him like a sack of bricks and don't look back and then find yourself a guy who actually deserves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): the best thing you could of done is not pretended to be your friend. how can your bf trust you after you did something like that even if he doesn't know that was you? that's sneaky.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (20 April 2009):
 No. You did the right thing. It sounds like he just wants to be with any good-looking female, because after you left him he is still talking to the other girl.
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