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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together three and a half years, we have quite a good sex life but sometimes it feels like i want to do something different to spice it up. I have heard that one thing that might work is a some kind of sexy dance you know lap dance or something. I have been thinking about doing one for him for about a week now but i cant seem to find the right time, he is either playin computer game or he seems relaxed watching telly so then i am worried he wont be in the mood for one. Plus i am such a shy person and i think i will look stupid. Need some advise how do i know when the right time and what if he doesnt enjoy it and how am i ment to be sexy rather then shy to do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): Trust me if he is watchig tv or somethig just tell him that you are going to give him a lap dance and whatever he is doing, he will instantly be only interested in you!
If you don't know what to do you can just google lap dancing or youtube it to get some tips. You could just buy a sexy outfit and he will probably be so turned on you won't even have to do much dancing! He will definately not think you look stupid - he will love it!
As for being shy, just remember that this man loves you and loves having sex with you, so imagine how he will feel when his gf wants to give him a sexy dance! He will feel on top of the world! x
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (10 May 2010):
Why doesn't he spice things up? What I must enquire is which one of you is bored, if it is you then a temporary fix like this is no more than that.
You would not look stupid because you are very fit and sexy! He may prefer the delectable shy lady he has or he may it seems be tired of this relationship.
I know it is terrible to be shy but talk to your friends about all of this as the signs tell me something else and I am never comfortable when you gals feel you have to make efforts to spice up sex. It should be both of you, better still throw the games out the window and pull the plug on both?
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