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writes: My girlfriend of 5 years has left me for another man. I can't seem to let go. I know she is struggling with her decision as well, but she still won't come home. We still talk almost on a daily basis, but I'm afraid that my "reaching out" to her is pushing her away. Although I'm so confused, because at the same time I sometimes feel she is torn. I'm so heartbroken. What should I do?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (7 February 2006):
 She has made her bed and is lying in it, she broke yur heart and she knows it.
When we have loved someone for so long we are attatched to them and when it ends you grieve, you get seperation anxiety and long for the good times you had together, well im afraid it is oftern just a longing.
Problem is that you are dragging out the healing process by the daily contact, if you did not have this then you would be able to better move on, she may have her regrets but you cannot stand around forever just waiting in case she comes back to you.
If you are meant to be together you will but cut loose and try and move on, for both your sakes.
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