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Waiting to have sex until I am ready So is this why my bf avoids me?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2010)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *roubledgurl writes:

My bf is a nice guy, very caring and loving, but the problem is that i dont see him all the time. he is always occupied with his work. even when we get to see each other, it will just be for a little time. Now he said he doesnt want to be alone with only me around because it wil make him feel sexy and wanting to have sex. when Im not ready for sex. Is he avoiding me because of sex or his work.

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A female reader, IW Sweden +, writes (26 March 2010):

IW agony auntyou sort of answered this one yourself. if he says that he don't want to be alone with you because he feels like having sex with you, he probably is avoiding you because he only thinks of sex.

i don't want to be frank, but if he can't be around you when it's just the two of you because he just want sex, he's not all that caring. true, it can be troublesome for him to always feel horny, but if you're never alone and just have time to care for each other when and how does he think you will ever feel ready to have sex with him. you have to feel intimate with someone to feel ready to have sex with them and if you just hang out in a big group of people that will be difficult.

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