A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with my best friend, I think i am obsessed with him I told him how I feel, I love everything about him, His smell his eyes his hairy body he is fat and has the cutest face he spits, farts, snores and is fearless he is a bear type he is very controlling but he likes girls and is married but separated. He says he loves me but its so painful dealing with him he is like a drug i must see him and be with him and he always wants me around.When he sees me getting close or as a friend with another guy he calls me and asks me if i am in love with the other person. I reply that I am in love with him and then he tells me to shut up! I had one incidence this week where i took one of his workers to buy something on his lunch hour and i did not hear the end of that. He teased me all week about it but now he is upset with me. I got really drunk on new years eve night and one of his friends wanted to take him to go fuck whore's and I told his friend to leave him alone let him stay at home with his family and stop trying to kill him with whore's and I totally lost it i was cursing and saying how much I love him and telling his friend to leave him alone!! He eventually stayed home. But when it was time to sleep i went into his room cause we sleep in the same bed. I turned on the light and he exploded on me telling me to take off the light and get out of the room! He slapped me and he told me to sleep on the couch. I was so embarrassed, I cried myself to sleep on the couch and when i woke up i realised that i threw up all over myself on the couch which made it worst he saw that and now he is not even speaking to me. I am still at his home last night i slept with him on the bed he said nothing he hugged me a little and that was that he has not told me a word since. He took my car and left me home all day today. When he was taking his shower he was just staring at me from the bath while he showered it was so weird. I just called him on his mobile and he answered what do you want!! I replied I just called to say hi and he hung up! I know he is upset because I was drunk he hates it but when we both are drunk we get into these terrible fights! but this time it was my fault! What should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): It sounds like that your male friend may also be sexually attracted to you. Although, this is something he may never actually admit. These feelings can be confusing to a person, so that is why you might get mixed signals from him.
I would try to distance myself from him. Considering the violence he has shown towards you, I can't imagine things getting any easier between the two of you.
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