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writes:I have a pen pal who I exchange emails quite often. I call him on the phone very rarely b/c we are long distance. When I call him there are moments in which we are just silent, so I get nervous and cut it short so we hang up quickly. I want to talk so much with him, but I just can't.What's happening to me, I love him but can't say more or don't feel like he wants to talk more. I mean he makes conversation but I get too shy and hang up. What can I do about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): anynoymous reader have you been in love with a voice too..I'm in a similar situtaion..what happened with you
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 How about before you make that phone call put a pen and paper to work for you!
Write down little ideas or questions you might want to talk about, write them down as you think of them during the day and then when you do make the call and are at a loss for words, look down at your list and pick something then go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): the best thing to do is to make short talk ask how his day went ask if anything is new the usual and when that question is already answered just ask a random one. questions are the best way to conversant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): well are you inlove with this man?maybe you need to realise that he's your pen pal i know what its like to fall inlove wit a voice over the phone its hurtful! so maybe you need to sort out your head first are either of you in a relationship? maybe you have to look forward and think that you friendship is becoming beyond just a friendship
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