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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend was a huge druggie and drinker and it has had a huge impact on how I now react to drugs and drink. My partner of 2 years is aware of this. I think I am quite tolerant - he drinks around 3 ciders a night minimum and on weekends 2 bottles wouldnt even see him that tipsy- and I very rarely have a go at him about it. If he wants to smoke weed I ask him to do it when I'm not there. There is a party this weekend with one of his mates who smokes weed so I said I wouldnt go so I wouldnt ruin it for him by getting really upset (which I cant help doing when I see him smoke it.) However despite this 2 days before the party he is in the garage with a friend smoking weed, and downing tequilla and absence. It just makes me feel like he couldnt care less about my feelings and how much this upsets me. He is 37 - so its not like he is fresh out of uni. I feel so upset - due to my past experiences it has actually made me physically sick. Am I justified in feeling so upset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): Ok, you will be considered as just an idiot woman if you just keep on taking his shit, well at least to me. Don't try to change him, cause, trust me he won't change, If he really loved you he would listen to your feeling, but he dosn't, my best advice to you is to leave him, he cares not about anything, please don't take his crap, he will only keep you at the same level, make somthing of yourself, don't let him pull you down, and have a good life.
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