Two women--Should I get back with the first one or keep dating the 2nd one?

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, here it goes i dated a woman for 5 months before her mom was diagnosed with lung cancer.So my question is should I get back with her. Her mom is done with treatment and is better now.Five months is a long time of not seeing her.I hung on tight with her during rough time that she was going through.And now i have another woman that's interested in me.I made plans with her on the 17th.Well she told me i could of met someone else so i did. How would i tell her that i met someone else.She told me she still loves me and misses me allot.And also I still love her and miss her. She cannot believe its been so long since she saw me.It was july 2nd the last time we saw each other.I just don't know what to do with the other woman that's interested in me.But the one i have seen has two daughters.And the other one has no kids and around my age.i dint wanna mess up with this other one that i've been kind of seeing through the last five months.And also stayed in touch with each other during those long 5 months.She said she felt bad because she pushed me away during the rough with her mom.We do have plans to see eachother again.

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