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writes: I just started working at an amusment park a few weeks ago and I've met two guys who work in games, during my breaks. I work in retail. They are both tall and have brown hair..and are sweet. I think I have a type. Tonight is our work party. Some of the rides are open just for employees after the park closes. What advice do you have for me and these guys? Should I try to hangout with them? I'm going with a friend of mine. If we hit it off advice on what to do or not to do? I don't want to come on too fast but I don't want to let them just slip through my fingers.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, no_issues  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 No point in beating around the bush.
Tell them that life is short and you have a fantasy involving both of them but to find out what it is they have to come home with you (and/or your friend, if you want to involve her).
Then proceed from there. If you get cold feet and need to bail at the last minute, reveal to them that your fantasy is team Connect Four. At worst it will be a test of their character.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (30 June 2008):
 Be yourself. Don't push too hard, but it's perfectly OK to let them know that you are not without interest in them. Oh, DON'T do it when they are together, though. The last thing you need is to get the two of them fighting over you and end up figuring that you are just big trouble.
Specific advice would be impossible because what might be right for someone else could be totally wrong for you. You want to be natural. As I said, be yourself. And definitely DO leave them with the impression that if they were to, say, ask you out sometime that you wold probably accept. Some guys tend to be somewhat hesitant around a woman where they work, and look for some clear sign that an advance won't be resented. It's up to you to give that sign without coming on too strong.
Have fun, enjoy the party, and get to know the guys. Get to know them as individuals. They might be totally different, you know ... one might be just right for you and the other just totally not compatible at all. Who knows?
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