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Trying to spice things up -- morning nookie?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so this is something that kinda embarrasses me to ask, but I need help/pointers from those who are a little more bold than I am.

My husband is leaving for a couple of days for work and he just got home yesterday from being gone overnight the previous night. We're kinda in a rut if you know what I mean, so I'm trying to spice things up. I want to wake him up giving him a blow job, but I'm not sure how to initiate it. LOL OMG! LOL Yes, I'm doing this also as a way to maybe get some morning nookie to tie me over til he gets back. But I know he likes oral, and we rarely have morning sexual encounters of any kind, so I'm wanting to change things up a little.

Anything you got is very much appreciated! Thanks!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 June 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntHi girlfriend,

On the rare occasion, I wake my fella up with a blow job. It is the best!! He spends the rest of the day treating me like a queen, it is so amazing to him. I think 99.9% of guys would LOVE to be woken up with a blowjob, especially if you want to go all the way, climb on top and ride him into oblivion!

How to initiate things: does he sleep with clothes on? Try to convince him to sleep without boxers on, do like nude massages the night before (also sexy and spicy), and fall asleep like that. That's just the easier way for you in the morning to get access, then you don't need to struggle with clothes. If he has no pants on, well - just get under those covers and go for it. Also realize that he may not wake up until things are well under way - DON'T STOP! Don't think that he's not enjoying things, oh he is. And he'll eventually wake up, see himself with a huge erection and you on the end of it - he'll be thrilled beyond thrilled.

If you can't convince him to sleep in the nude, well try to get up when you know he's sleeping (4am sex is just as awesome as 8am sex!), pull down his pants and go for it.

You will be his queen for a day!! You go girl!

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (1 June 2009):

niki20 agony auntjust go for it. hell be so wooed doing something like that would make hi, happy, guys like that lol. they wake up all happy and then your doing one thing your good at:) just roll over and whip it out and start giving him head, hell wake up, and be all smiles.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

well if he's like a lot of men he may already be erect in the morning, my advice is just get right on to it he won't stay asleep long.

when my girlfriend does this it's always a nice way to wake up and a great start to the day.

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