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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Need advice! I met him early Jan this year and started dating and are still dating, but the relationship has been troubled basically from day 1. Initially it was baby mama drama! A whole lot of drama! The ex (baby mama) would go over to his place 4 a weekend. This happened twice and on both occasions i flipped - we even broke up for a week on the back of the second incident. But i still felt strongly for him so we got back together. There's still a lot that bothers me with this ex, but after he showed me an sms from her, i sort of made peace and got to believe that they are not seeing each anymore. I also need to mention that i had lowered my standards with him as i was kind of trying to look at the bigger picture. Through all this I've seen him sms' 1 particular lady - full on conversations at night. So basically he's cheating and yes i hav confronted him about it, and the messaging has ceased - at night that is, no idea what he gets up to during the day. Because i felt this was going nowhere, my head was telling me and my heart is starting to catch up, i registered on a dating site and within a week i ''met'' a potential - a real catch- right there in terms of my standards. Obviously things are never as perfect. This new man has some legal issues, but having met a family member, i'm more optimistic. With guy 1 should i call it quits and give guy 2 a well deserved chance? Guy 2 seems like the serious type. Just not sure if its his situation that makes him like me.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 First of all yes you should leave guy 1 and guy 2 is hes (situation) realy sereouse? Just be carefull of what you get yourself into. But I think you deserve better then having drama with ex's all the time.
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