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writes:I am having a lot or touble dealing with my husband being in the Army. It was not a part of the plan when we were planning out lives together. Now we have two kids and I am home alone all the time. I just get so frustered, and he doesn't even seem to care. We are growing apart it seems all the time. don't know what to do. I find myself wanting out, but then i don't really want a divorce. There is no passion or communication in our marriage anymore. I have told him all this and he seriously just stares off into space, wich makes me soo angry. I tell him over and over that if he doesn't do something I just want to go, and he says nothing. So please no one tell me to talk to him about it, because I have tried that, over and over and over. It seems like he just wants me to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Sounds like he has already made his decision. Its time for you to make yours.. my advice is to leave. If he still doesnt say anything, you know its what you got to do. Also sounds like an asshole for not talking to you about it.. get rid youll do better elsewhere.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 Unfortunately it is all too often the case that it is the Army or your family.
I think you need to tell him one final time: Army or you! and when he chooses the Army it is time for you to leave him.
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