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Torn Between two lovers

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Question - (21 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2012)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Who is in a relationship of 6yrs, started dating when I ws vry young. Presently A¯_??? serving my fatherland n I met a guy in orientation camp n we both lyk each other and one thing led to another n we got so intimate n we did what lovers do so my boyfriend found out that I lyked this guy n he wants me to stp any form of intimacy with him n focus on us again as I used to buh I find it so difficult to let go of this guy n the handwriting is so obvious on the wall that we lyk each other n wants to b with each other but A¯_??? torn in btw dis two guys. Pls advice me

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (21 December 2012):

Don't forget that new relationships have an unfair advantage over familiar ones. You don't know the new guy, so everything he does seems great. Your boyfriend is well known to you and can seem boring.

If your boyfriend is a good guy, treats you well, is fun, etc. then stay with him. If you ruin the relationship just because you met someone new and exiting then you might get pretty upset with yourself when you realize that the new guy isn't better than the old once you get to know him better.

That being said you're young, do what you want at this point.

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