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writes: Hi, I'm not sure what to do. This man has been texting me for weeks now and I really like him. The problem is I met an old friend last week and she was saying how much she likes this man who has been texting me. I didn't say anything cuz I thought that would be rubbing her nose in it. I text the man saying "my friend likes you, so nothing can happen". I then went out with my mate and she was saying she fancied at least five other men. When I asked about the man I liked, she said he isn't interested so she's going to forget about him. I then text him back saying I will go for a drink with him, but most of my friends say they wouldn't. I know a lot of people don't like him because he was immature at school and a bit of a bully and that if I went out with him it would ruin a friendship, for what, but then he is really sweet and nice to me. I don't know what to do. Please help, thanksxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2005): ask your friend if she minds if you go out with him. if she says she minds, then its tough - no man is worth losing a good friend for xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2005): Hi.This is an age old problem and what you need to remember is that it is you he is making the effort with not your mate.As much as it may hurt her (and you really should have told her when she said she liked him)she has the right to know.Leaving it will possibly make it seem like you are only telling her this to take her chances with him away.Either way now sommeone will feel slighted and hurt.You really have to do what is right for you as i am sure your friend would.I really hope this may help.Take care and good luck to you.
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