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Too scared to have sex through fear of pregnancy, how can I stop him from wanting to fool around with me?

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Question - (24 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am only 18 years old, my boyfriend is also 18 years old . we have been in a relationship for 4 months . when we were still in our first month, he always want to kiss me. so i learn how to kiss through him. now , i always like to be kiss by him( i enjoy it) . but know that were four months. he touched my vagina , and try to insert it. i told hem to stop it. its like im enjoying when he is touching it. so instead to say stop it , i just tell him not to insert it. so now . he still keep on touching it. i enjoy it , i dont know how to expalin what i feel when he touch my vagina. i am afraid tat he only wants me because of that . i also touch his penis but outside his pants.

~i dont know what to do know. i know if i allow him to continue what his doing , maybe i'll be pregnant early . im still in college and im afraid of that . and i have read in some sites that it is possible to be pregnant without any sexual intercourse . WHAT WILL I DO ???

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (24 February 2011):

dirtball agony auntI'm sorry, but you're in college and you don't know you should capitalize the letter "I" when it is used alone, and you don't know how to safely avoid pregnancy? Come on. I learned that stuff in GRADE SCHOOL! How did you manage to get into college NOT knowing this stuff?

If you're scared, stop doing what you're doing. You're not ready for it. Then, go to your favorite search engine and do some research in how sex works and how people get pregnant. EDUCATE yourself!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (24 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntAt 18-21 you should have already had Sex Ed, what's your real age?

If there is semen, precum on his hands from rubbing himself and he fingers you then yes it's a possibility to get pregnant. Now, if you're so worried about getting pregnant then I suggest you get yourself on a form of effective birth control(the shot is great) and he wears a condom during sex.

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A female reader, littleconfused United States +, writes (24 February 2011):

Yes if his semen get into your vagina. YES, you can be pregnant without sexual intercourse. You should just talk to your bf about this, how you think doing this without protection can lead to serious problems. Let him know he might be a father soon if he doesn't know where is the line.

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