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If a guys denies his love for you is there a possibility he may start loving later?

Q.   i like this guy. we know each other since childhood. but he treats me more like a friend / sister .. he likes me, cares for me etc . . everything a guy can do make a girl feel spl. however, when I confessed that I have feelings for him he ...

A.   24 February 2011: Like more than friends interaction. More flirting or touch, if he allows you to. ... (read in full...)

If a guys denies his love for you is there a possibility he may start loving later?

Q.   i like this guy. we know each other since childhood. but he treats me more like a friend / sister .. he likes me, cares for me etc . . everything a guy can do make a girl feel spl. however, when I confessed that I have feelings for him he ...

A.   24 February 2011: I think there is still a possible for a turn. (Or I am looking for a turn myself for my own "friendship") Is there anything he did that makes you feel he loves you more than a friend? NOTHING IS FOR CERTAIN. its not like you guys are related... (read in full...)

I fell for my best friend but he didn't...!

Q.   I’ve known my best friend since I was around 8 we grew up in church. I used to have a little crush on him but when he stopped going to church I lost contact with him and the little crush went away. I later found out that he was in a gang. In his ...

A.   24 February 2011: I know exactly how you feel. For me, I told my best friend, and he just "defriended" me. It was just terrible months of my life. I was so depressed... I know what you mean by "you do these stuff to you sister?" It is funny, when you say som... (read in full...)

Is my friend bi or gay....and interested in me?

Q.   So I think my friend is bi or gay. He always tries to hold my hand and he always puts his arm around me. He hugs me, rubs my back, and touches my face and thighs. Sometimes he will sit on my lap or let me sit on his. At football games, we cuddle ...

A.   24 February 2011: Ummm I have bi and gay friends... I think that's is kind of like signs? I think it is because he asked you if you are gay and you said no. So he is knows you are not interested? I think you should ask him, don't lead him on if you don't want t... (read in full...)

Should I stop this friendship or try dragging along longer and see if it gets better

Q.   This isn’t a relationship as much as something I’m having problems with my best friend who’s a girl. Basically were really good friends. Hers the problem she seems to have completely changed in the course if 1 day and stayed that way for a month ...

A.   24 February 2011: I dont know what to say...since I kind of have your life except I have your life and my guy friend has your girl friend's life. I woke up my guy friend too. Here how I think of it. YOU ARE GOING TO BE THERE ANYWAY RIGHT? She thinks you wil... (read in full...)

Too scared to have sex through fear of pregnancy, how can I stop him from wanting to fool around with me?

Q.   i am only 18 years old, my boyfriend is also 18 years old . we have been in a relationship for 4 months . when we were still in our first month, he always want to kiss me. so i learn how to kiss through him. now , i always like to be kiss by him( i ...

A.   24 February 2011: Yes if his semen get into your vagina. YES, you can be pregnant without sexual intercourse. You should just talk to your bf about this, how you think doing this without protection can lead to serious problems. Let him know he might be a father soon ... (read in full...)

He said I took advantage of him! What on earth happened here?

Q.   I really need someone to tell me what just happened in the matter of two weeks with one of my best friends. He and I have been close for quite some time we are both 31 and should be well beyond acting like children. The sexual tension was building ...

A.   24 February 2011: WTF!? Okay? This guy now? Hello? He is wanting you without the responsibilities? I think he just wants you for sex. Are you interested in him, because if you are you should let him know. If you are not, get some guy better. He is not WORTH ... (read in full...)

Should I simply give him time?

Q.   I have been chatting with the boy I like for three or four weeks, I told him what my feelings were and now he doesn't text me so often, he told me he just wants to be my friend and doesn't want to hurt me. When he sees me at school he always says ...

A.   22 February 2011: If he made if clear he wants to be friends, I do think he only wants to be friends. You are thinking a bit too much. Just be friends, maybe he will change his mind after a while. Good luck... (read in full...)

Is it possible he still has feelings for me?

Q.   My ex and I have been spending a lot of time together lately. We dated for a year and broke up back in October. After we broke up, we didn't really speak and we would hook up from time to time but there was never anything more. Now, he talks ...

A.   22 February 2011: Yup, it sounds like he is interested again. Why dont you ask him since you guys were together before, it shouldn't be that big of a deal right? If you still want to get back with him, then follow his footsteps,if not you probably shouldn'... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?

Q.   Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...

A.   21 February 2011: So your two friends had sex and you are sure of it? well, personally, I think this is their problem. You don't need to "share" with anyone. If they get in trouble or anything like that. It shouldn't be your fault. Just let them be. They ma... (read in full...)

Age difference dilemma......

Q.   i really like this guy i work with *no rules at work about dating co workers* and we have been flirty for a while now, but i have just found out that there is a huge age difference (9 years! i'm about to turn 18 and he is 27) i really want this to ...

A.   21 February 2011: I personally don't like it when the person I am dating is too old. BUT a guy once told me this, age is just a number. It really depends how you think. If you think it is okay then its fine. Your relationship is your own. Others shouldn't be jud... (read in full...)

Age difference dilemma......

Q.   i really like this guy i work with *no rules at work about dating co workers* and we have been flirty for a while now, but i have just found out that there is a huge age difference (9 years! i'm about to turn 18 and he is 27) i really want this to ...

A.   21 February 2011: I personally don't like it when the person I am dating is too old. BUT a guy once told me this, age is just a number. It really depends how you think. If you think it is okay then its fine. Your relationship is your own. Others shouldn't be jud... (read in full...)

Should I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? I don't want to stress him out...

Q.   I just found out I had a miscarriage,I didn't know I was pregnant so you can imagine I'm still a bit shaken, my question is about my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, things have been a bit rough lately and he's really stressed out ...

A.   21 February 2011: I think he should know just to be aware of this happening to you.... (read in full...)

Harmless flirting or wanting something more?

Q.   I'm in a pickle! Tell me what you think! I was at a work placement this week for my Uni course and there was this guy...I spent most of the afternoon with him, general chat about what he does, how long he's done it, etc. I thought he was Gay...he ...

A.   21 February 2011: This is one of those things that everyone is different. Like you might see it as a hint that he is interested but he might or he might not be. Just allow for more time :)... (read in full...)

Who is this mysterious pen writer?

Q.   A few days ago someone started mysteriously signing my name in on the attendance sheet for a lecture at college before it reaches me. I'm also 100% sure it's a girl because the handwriting is girly and my name is followed by a love heart. It's...

A.   21 February 2011: LOL, this is pretty sweet and funny. You should totally do something to show that you noticed her. If you know her, and are interested. This is totally a hint! :D good luck :)... (read in full...)

Apparently her feelings for me were a prank played out by her sister...and now she wants to be just friends!

Q.   Ok, this is a simple problem that most of you might've had over the years, but it's just now hitting me and I need help. There is this girl that I like so much, and, I come to find out, she likes me the same way. The only reason we aren't...

A.   21 February 2011: Well, all you can do is to accept what she said if you want to remain as friends. If she doesn't think of you more, and said her sister was playing with her phone. You can't do much. Now maybe she knows you are interested...but maybe she will begin ... (read in full...)

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