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writes:Whats Wrong with me? Im 20 years old and still a virgin, but I get so horney! And Ive done everything else besides sex.. as many times as its crossed my mind im scared.. And i dont know why.. BUT anyways back to my problem.. Everytime i get in the mood and have a guy right in front of my face, i freak out or like we start messin around and then I stop.... I like dont understand.. I just want to sit back and enjoy it but instead I freak out and make them stop refering to fingering and all that stuff.. Like its not that i dont enjoy fingering but i guess its getting old.. I dont know but ive been tryin to figure it out.. :/
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 You could be having some strong inhibitions about your sexuality.
It could be shyness,poor body image, dominating parents, sexual abuse and moral conflict.
It could be your strict upbringing or religious background.
reference;-
http://www.carolthecoach.com/articles/sexuality/sensuality.htm
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (3 March 2010):
A woman's most powerful weapon against sexual frustration is to learn to satisfy yourself, by yourself!! When you are feeling horny just read a racy novel or something and get your climax and be done with it. If you have been reluctant to move things along, then you will probably regret it if you do. Wait until you meet someone who loves you and you have dated them for a while at least. I'm yet to meet a woman who did not regret crossing that line due to pressure from a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): It might be your instinctual side telling you to stop and wait until the right time, or probably moreso, the right person to come along. You'll know when the time is right, you'll feel it. Don't rush it, and be proud and feel blessed you've waited so far, as long as you have. It's never good to go against your instincts, and you'll probably regret it if you do. Please don't get frustrated, and let whoever your with know which stuff you don't want to do, when they push too much. It's your body and your choice. If you think it might be the right guy, then think about getting married, or if marriage isn't part of your belief system, go with your heart and maybe it's time to light the fuse in the shaft, anyway. Listen to your heart, not your mind.
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