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writes:My bf and I have been together for almost 6 years. He's always liked porn (a lot) and watch it every chance he gets. However, we have sex like once a week, but he watches porn almost every other day or every three days by himself(that's if I leave the apt. to run an errand or out with friends). How could he watch porn so much but not want sex??? He's the only one I've been with and I've only been the only one he's been with. It makes me want to leave him because if this is how my sex life is going to be, I don't want in, I want out! Help me please!!!
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reader, muas +, writes (29 December 2008):
muas is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have talked this over with him in the past and yes he stopped. But during this time, I didn't live with him, so I didn't really know if he was watching this stuff or not, I just had to trust him. However, with my snooping eyes, I find this stuff on the computer (internet history, hidden files...). If its his fantasies he's looking for... then I'm just confused. For example, he'll want to watch something like girls gone wild. I'm a junior in college, but if I went out with something hot, a little showy... he would be very upset and think I'm a Ho*. But he loves to watch stuff like that. I know for sure that sex once a week is not normal, I'm 21 and he's 23... He's a great person but cannot satisfy my sexually...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Sometimes men struggle to express what they really like and want thinking that we will see them as freaks or strange, but what you have to remember is that he is not the only one in this relationship, maybe try and have a chat with him tell him about how you feel about the whole porn thing, ask him what he likes so much about the porn, perhaps you can help him to make some of those fantasies a reality and perhaps once he sees that you are not scared to try new things with him he might change, sweet heart u also have to remember that porn can become an addiction like Meth, and once u hooked its hard to let go, I am not saying he is addicted to porn but if he is not willing to change this for you he might have a problem, and sex is great it makes is feel beautiful and confident and if your sex life is a mess, its gona turn you into a mess to.
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