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writes:I live with my bf for 4 yrs now and everytime we argue he ignore me for 3 to 6 days. Sleeps in the living room and doesn't even eat the food I cook. Is this normal when you live with someone? It's getting very annoying Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): It can be normal, some poeple can really hold on to their anger. Unlike me! I'm hopeless I can't stay angry at people even if I really should be!.
Its a bit immature to be honest!. I think you need to tell him to grow up and learn to deal with his anger!. But even more effective is if you are extra, extra nice to him when his in a sulk!!. then he will realise just how silly it is to stay angry fo soooo long!.
good luck in everything you do.
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reader, farmertull +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I used to do exactly what your boyfriend does up to a few years ago. We would have a disagreement and then I would be frustrated and sleep on the couch because I thought it would make her think "next time I will be better". I would eventualy cool off and she could go longer without sex then me. With me there was great misunderstanding and frustration at not being understood. She cheated on me and I couldnt believe it. We went to counciling and we were taught about communication gaps. I was willing to go to counciling because I did not want to loose her and we had a great councilor. I think your boyfriend is punishing you and not even aware of why he is doing it. You need to talk during a normal time about ...what can we do to avoid that? Why did you do that then could that have been avoided?
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