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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now and I wanted to do something special for him. He works really hard and finds it hard to chill out so I thought of either taking him to a day spa or just for a massage at a good salon in my town. Should i push the boat out and spend a lot on a day, or do you think its just as nice to go for a massage together that wont break the bank for half an hour? Thanks guys!! xxx Reply to this Question |
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reader, smeedle +, writes (23 July 2009):
 give up the idea of a spa, massage etc.Its his relaxing time and his treat, so ask him what he would like, quad biking, rallying and paintballing are all fun, yuck to the massage
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): I think its a balance of spending enough to help him relax. What's more important is choosing the correct things to make him feel relaxed (I'd go with the spa, that does sound nice).
Although the hr massage does sound nice as well. Hmm. I don't really know him as well as you ofc so I guess go with what you think would be better to relax him.
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (23 July 2009):
 A nice massage together should suffice. Treat him to dinner afterward.
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reader, abhi_47  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 hi mam:)
i think you can relax him with him with your quality time with him. how about having a stalk and discussing each others needs and problems, remembering old days when your relationship just sparked.
it will definately refuel your relationship and will made a lasting effect than surprising him with a spa package by putting strain on your pocket for momentary satisfaction when you can do miracles by just your company :)
have a good time mam:)
good luck
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