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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy through a family friend-she gave one of her friends nephews my number and he contacted me (by text). We texted every day for a month before agreeing to meet up. The date went well-met after work and we had a lot in common and ended up staying out till late. Neither of us stopped laughing the whole time at dinner and he suggested a stroll after it-the end of the date was a bit nerve wracking but neither of us went in for a kiss or anything and we parted ways-but then he texted within 20 minutes saying he'd had a great time etc. He didn't suggest a second date either in the text or in person at any point. We texted back and forth for a couple of days- then he didn't contact me for a couple of days until I texted him to say hi (he apologised and said he had been busy). I replied saying it was fine and we exchanged a few more messages. I had started and ended our last batch of messaging but he never replied to my last message (I had asked a question). It's now been a week and I haven't heard from him. Am a little confused and not too sure what to do next? Should I text him again or just leave it and assume he is not interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): If he didn't reply to your last text - I'd leave it. If you text again you risk feeling like you are pursuing him so no, don't.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 You should text him to ask him on a date. Maybe he's feeling a bit like he's had to make all the first moves. Either he's waiting for you to make a move or he's lost interest for some reason. Only one way to find out, and that's to ask him to go out.
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