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writes: Okay, here's the scoop.....Over 15 years ago, my best friend, now and then, was dating a guy. Nothing serious, no love, no sex (they were 14 at the time). Anyway, we met up with this guy 15 years later as adults. We all hung out as friends. The guy pursued me and I fell for him. I think he's my soul mate. He and I are working on a serious relationship. My best friend says she doesn't mind because "he was just a rebound guy from 15 years ago".I still sense that there is some tension between us due to all this. Do you think I am wrong?
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (9 May 2006):
 No, your right. That is a line that should not be crossed between friends/family at any age for any reason. She may not really care but in that realm its still 'her territory'.
You may want to spare her of the details of your relationship and keep it on ice around her since it can't be undone. But- I wouldn't be too surprised if tries to reclaim him after too long. When you stir up feelings like that, not one feeling comes out, they all do. I would watch it if I were you.
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