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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met my wife in 1997 through her then current busband; he and I worked together. He ended up cheating on her with about 30 women and then he went sorta crazy. She ended up divorcing him. Four years later, she and I married after dating for a year. He remarried and recently divorced; again for cheating on his wife. Today I received a friend request from him on Facebook. He and I used to be pretty good friends and have run into each other a few times since I married his ex. It's always been cool. Well, today he sent me a friend request on Facebook. I really don't want to add him as a friend but I still like the guy (at a distance) and wonder if I should send him an email telling him why I'm not adding him. Any suggestions?
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reader, xAx  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 I think that sending him an email telling him nicely why you don't want to accept him is a good idea. But would it make him have angry actions towards you and your wife? Maybe you should just ignore him compeletely and if he ever somehow asks you why you didn't accept him, you could say that you don't use facebook much.
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