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writes:hey ladieas i wanna favour from you..me and my gf are planning to go for oral for the first time..please tell me what caution should i take and how i could make this more pleasurable for my gf..
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reader, Vm +, writes (19 September 2014):
Vm is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey thanks sweetie i will keep in mind
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reader, Vm +, writes (19 September 2014):
Vm is verified as being by the original poster of the question@chigirl.
Thanks for your valuable tips i will keep them in mind.should we do 69 at same time??
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 September 2014):
 I know I don't qualify, but I just have to wonder aloud, who makes plans for this? In my world it just happens and both parties know exactly what to do and how to do it. I am so out of the loop!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 September 2014):
 Don't poke her with your fingers, and do not try to push your tongue inside her. It's just pointless and brings zero pleasure. Focus on her clitoris. If you don't know what that is, google it. The clitoris is all you need to know about. Then EXPLORE her with your tongue. LISTEN to the sounds she makes. Try different things with your tongue, from going up and down slowly, to flickering quickly.
Be aware that it usually will take a long time for a woman to climax, if at all. It takes a lot of practice in order to get oral right.
Oh, and start of GENTLY. Add more pressure as you go along, but start with very very gentle touches. The clitoris is very sensitive, and needs only very light touches at the beginning, or else it'll become sore and unpleasant. You want to be able to go at it for about 10-20 minutes, so build up the anticipation slowly, rather than go full on right away.
And have fun at it! If your tongue gets tired, take breaks and kiss her instead, or position her in a different way so that it is easier for you.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2014): Watch some sex guides on youtube, OP. Porn isn't allowed on there so you'll get good advice. Most of the ones I've watched were even made by women.
Oral technique isn't hard as long as you watch a few vids to see what they do and you learn to read the signals by paying attention to her body, her breathing etc while you're doing certain things, then you just keep doing the ones you can tell are working and keep going.
The only practical advice I can give you is to not be too rough but also do make firm contact with your tongue, if you can use the fingers at the same time well then you'll be great at it.
Above all though, OP part of the fun is exploring and figuring these out, in fact the best way is to do it as much as possible and make foreplay a big part of your sex life.
If you're talking about her performing oral on you then just make sure penis and the area around it are clean, the area under the foreskin especially, but also not to taste to soapy. Don't be afraid to go have a wash first but rinse off well too.
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