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writes: Story about Unwanted person OR Can we be just a friends..And its starts all over again and again and just cant see the end of my love story .. I mean its not only one case! it always goes fine for several months , we have dates , our company of friends , picnics , sex.. till this terrible day i stand out in front of his well prepared speech : you are great person, kind, nice, bla bla bla but! i dont think you suit me as a girlfriend and we cant continue our relationship .CAN WE BE JUST A FRIENDS?. well it happen to me three times and i feel like it whole Joke around me, does it fair ? or mightly i have to take modelling courses or mightly i do something wrong , or..sure they can realize im not type of person they need , but not three times with different guys ..PLEASE i need your advice so badly ... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): This probably could be your fault, it could be his fault, it could be anything. If you don't know what's wrong with your past relationships, no one else who hasn't been with you, or seen you with those guys will know.
3 break-ups is nothing. I have friends who have been in the dating scene since their late teens, and now they're 30+ and have gone through almost a hundred different dates and relationships. Sure, I always say, it's all about trial and error. Some relationships obviously do not work out and others do, but even for the ones that do, things may not always go the way you want them to be. Thus arguments ensue, breaks and divorces happen, etc.
Heck, I've mutually broke up with three girls in my past, dumped one, and had a bad break-up with my last - totalling to five more serious relationships. After every relationship, sometimes it took a week or two to reflect, accept it, make a note and move on. Sometimes it took a few years on a gradual basis mingling with other aspects of my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006):
three times *total* or three times recently?
You might have common friends do a little investigation for you and see if they can find out some more details about what specific things warned the bf's off of you.
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reader, michelle rogers +, writes (3 December 2006):
hi ya its not your fault its theres your probaly a lovely person and deserve better than that never blame yourself men are all the same its happened to me in the past always love yourself and dont go looking for love it will come to you honey take care and you will find mr wright.
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