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*ddison
writes: When a guy breaks up with you and then calls 3 days later to ask how your weekend was, what does it mean? Is he just trying to stroke his ego or does he genuinely miss you? How should I play it from here on in to get him back?
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reader, addison +, writes (27 March 2006):
addison is verified as being by the original poster of the question we actually broke up. I think he was just stroking his ego, saying that, he said he would call again soon! Why? Why does he want to keep calling me? Surely he is aware its over.......
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (26 March 2006):
 How is this progressing now?
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reader, addison +, writes (21 March 2006):
addison is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! No I dont intend on chasing him! He called again last night and I missed the call and he left a message on my answering machine. If needed he will call again, but i must say, at this point it is doing my ego wonders!! Ill keep you informed on how it pans out. Thanks again!
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reader, willywombat +, writes (20 March 2006):
Sounds like he was concerned for you and that he wanted to reassure himself that you ahve taken the break ok. Would you really want this guy back, I mean after all he has just dumped you and he might just do it again on a whim in the future.
If you really want him back...the best advice I can give you is DONT do anything at all. Let him chase you. Let him do ALL the work and that way he will realise you are a *prize* that has to be earned and not just a *toy* he can pick up and put down on a whim.
Good Luck.
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006): my first reaction to this, is that he made a mistake, and was'nt able to say sorry or amend the relationship.
Hate to point out the obvious but men think about sex every 20 mins of the day (so they say). stroking his ego? yes maybe but he may be waiting for you to beg for him back.
play it cool, if he wants you back, let him do the running.
If you stayed in last night or at the weekend, dont let him know that, after all he needs to remember what an interesting women you really are and then watch him do the running, leave bottles on the side as if you had company last night, and when questioned, you act all uncomfortable with this questioning and change the subject, as a man might do, and see how over the next few days/weeks, how he changes his tune. Remember if he wants you and he finished it, then let him do the runing, or you will feed his ego!!!!
good luck friend.
Aunty Lou.
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