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writes:I am 15, and go to church with a 27 year old. he is just everything ive ever wanted. a great christian man, beautiful, funny, caring. just everything. my feelings have grew really strong. his mom and i pray that it will be in gods plan for us to be together. i am always thinking about him. crying over him. smiling over him. We e-mail each other and im pretty sure he knows i like him. and want to be his bride one day! he does things that are really flirtatious. and the way way he stares and looks. i pay close attetion to everything. he is sorta a loner and is not very romantic. but i can see us together. i just hope in maybe 6 or 7 years. him and i can go have dinner together.
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reader, R092  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 I know what you mean. I'm 16 and the guy I like is also 27.
I was really shocked when I first found out how old he is but if you really like someone it shouldn't matter how old they are.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (9 March 2008):
 This is a 27 yr old man that is going to have very different needs and requirements from a WOMAN that you cannot provide him at your age. Crushes are fun, and who knows what will happen 6 or 7 yrs from now, but it can't be a relationship that would be healthy or meaningful to either of you. He will probably be ready to settle down here shortly and build his family while you will be just learning about dating boys. Hopefully he is a good guy and won't take advantage of you and maybe even set a good example of how "decent" guys behave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): You know, if he's what makes you happy, then you can't let people stand in the way. It's rare that these things work out, but when they do, they can be amazing. So if you're willing to take the plunge, then why not go for it. Good luck, I hope everything works out good for you :]
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