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writes:my boyfriend and I have an amazing time together. We feel really close to each other. However, there are very large gaps between our physical initimacy. When I ask him if it us or if he is uncertain about me - he doesn't hesitate to say 'No'. He then makes a point to reassure me that he loves me -by pulling me close to him. What does this mean? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 It could just mean that he really doesn't have the desire to be with you in that sense.Not all men can perform all hours of the day, every day. Isn't quality better over quantity anyway, perhaps he feels the act is more special if it's more infrequent. If you do it too often it becomes to routine, and if you feel pressured to perform, it dampens the act also.
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reader, MissL  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 My boyfriend was like with me too - and it has been the case for the last few years. I am not suggesting that he could be cheating on you, but my personal experience is that he was actually not 100% commited to me anymore. I am sad to say that I recently found his profile on a sex-dating site and even though he didn't activate it, i no longer trust him. He still says he loves me and is now 100% with me, but the intimacy still has gaps. I really hope your bf is just stressed out or tired, and is not up to no good. I am sorry to dampen your thoughts, but as a woman, follow your gut instincts. Lots of love to you.
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