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writes:hi, i really do need a professional help.it bothers me when my boyfriend ask me to do the things that he want, such as in his sexual need.he wanted me to show my body or teasing someone while he is masterbating.is this normal? or is he sick? and he go so upset when i refused doing it.help me, to add some info i am a filipino and my boy friend is caucasian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): I wouldn't say he's sick for wanting you to tease him naked while he masturbates, but if its something you feel uncomfortable with then its your right to refuse but then discuss it with him and try and get him to understand.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 If it bothers you and you don't like it, then you need to discuss this with him. If he is not open to discussing it with you, I would question whether he really cares about you and whether you should be having sex with him in the first place. People who care about one another don't ask the other to do something they do not want to do. They may talk about the possibility of doing certain things to see how their partner reacts, but to pressure someone or get mad shows immaturity and insensitivity towards you. Doing different things sexually can be good, but not if one partner is not ready for it, doesn't like it, or if it happens to be something that is dangerous or unhealthy.
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