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writes:Why does the right girl, or any girl for that matter seem like she's far away from me? I've not had a relationship for a while now. My most recent one was in no way as good as my first relationship which lasted almost 2 years, and right now I feel like I'm not going to have anything as fun and as exciting as my first relationship. I loved my first girlfriend with all my heart, and I don't feel like I can love again (she split up with me to go to uni last summer). Certainly not as much as her.What can I do? I need a much more positive outlook on things I think, because right now I thinking quite negatively, and am starting to doubt my ability to attract a beautiful partner.
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reader, Blitz35  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 honestly... i know wat ur going through... its wasnt as long but its something like my realtionship in freshmen year and yea its hard... i did never get over it till new years... but yea u just need comfart... go to people that care about u... and talk to someone about it..ull feel better... its bascaily if shes the one shell come back to u.. if shes not... then there will be a prettyier or just as pretty girl in line... idk wat else too tell u... good luck
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (9 March 2008):
 A good way to change your outlook on this would be to visualize what you want and picture it happening. Athletes do this all the time and it helps with their success. Ask yourself what qualities would be important to you in a girlfriend and make either a mental list or write it down. Examples would be nice, good sense of humor, trustworthy, attractive, etc... things that are important to you. Then you just have to get busy with life and whatever activities like school, work, sports, and friends you enjoy doing with that image of what you want tucked in the back of your mind. You will be attracted to that type of girl when you see her and then you go from there.
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