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writes:My wife and i have a great sex life and we realy enjoy trying new positions. The one thing is that i am unable to make my wife cum whether it be lying on top / using my fingers or oraly. The only way she can cum is if she is on top of me and sometimes if she touches her self. When she is on top she can make me cum and cum several times her self. I would realy like to be able to make her cum by being on top or behind etc. She was previously married and had the same problem then. Can you help?
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reader, chloe71z  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Just talk to her and tell her that you would like to be able to please her from ohter angles and if she says that you dothen you do so dont worry. I can tell you i have to be either on top or with clitoral stimulaton myself so dont feel as if your wife is the only one who does this. Sex is great if you want to you could try doing the clitoral stimulation for her. But I would also talk to her about the diffrent positions and if she has any others she would like to try. I can tell you now that woman do have orgasms while in the other positions but with clitoral stimulation it makes that one ALOT more intence such as with The G-spot stimulation makes it way more intence. Good Luck
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Woman-on-top, or cowgirl style, is a favorite position for many women and men as well. I'll agree with others that you should be pleased that you are fulfilling her. You can always have sessions with various other positions - then when ready - conclude with your wife enjoying what works for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Maybe your wife likes being in control.
All women are different and sometimes it's just hard to cum in new of different ways.
Try and establish with it is that is making her cum... Is it clitoral stimulation or G-spot...
Once you've found that out you can try new possitions where you are on top or behind that stimulate the area. If it's clitoral then you could buy a little vibrating ring that fits around the base or your penis, which could help her climax whilst you are on top. If it's the G-spot then you could try taking her from being whilst she stands against a wall whilst stricking her bum out a little, as this is a great way of hitting it.
If not then maybe you'd like to try some new possitions where she is on top to make her climax. Try sitting on a chair and have her straddle you for example.
Hope this helped.
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reader, natasia +, writes (24 August 2008):
 No, I don't think so. It's probably just the way she is made, and anyhow, I don't think you should class it as a 'problem'. Is she bothered about it?
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