The love is gone, can I find it again? Or should I move on?

A male age 36-40, *edj41 writes:

I have been married for about four years. My wife and I knew each other for a long time before we were married. We dated for about a year before tying the knot. After we moved in together things started to go downhill. I am at a point where I am not sure if I should spend the rest of my life trying to make this work, or cut my losses and get back out in the world. I have spent the last three years trying to figure it out and make things work for us. I have been to counseling for myself, and we have been to couples counseling. All we've realized is that I want to experience life, and she wants to play video games. Anyone have any advice? Anything at all? I'm about two steps from a divorce, and I have been forward with my feelings. She thinks we should have a baby.

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