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The guy who likes me is married. What is the hope?

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Question - (2 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,im new to this and a bit stuck,anyway im sammy and ive got a little problem.ive just been told that this guy i know is keen on me,the thing is the word keen means?he likes me or something else?hes also married and is older by a few years,the thing is i do like him a lot but i know hes got a wife and that nothing is ever going to happen.what do you guys think and what i should do?

Many thanks sammy xx

i meet him through an older m8

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Keep him well and truly out of your life. Never ever go out with a married or attached bloke! Make that a lifes rule. It is quite flattering to know that someone fancies you but just leave it there. Do not go out with him because this will lead to tears.

take care

xx

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (2 November 2007):

rockelle agony auntI wouldn't give him the time of day. He has a wife so he doesn't have much to offer you. I would ignore him and keep my distance. Married men are bad news.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Hey Sammy,

I think this guy, like Phil said, is looking at you as a potential other woman. Don't enter into a relationship with him in any way. Nothing can ever happen between you, if it was me I'd stay away from him x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

I guess he's looking at you as a potential 'bit on the side' and has let the word out via your mate that's what he'd like to happen.

To answer your question, you should do nothing to encourage him but take it as a compliment and leave it at that.

Phil

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