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Why would my boyfriend try to convince online women that he used to be a girl?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. He has never been that passionate or overly comfortable about sex, which has got me down in the past. However, he has been a model boyfriend in mostly everything else. A couple of years ago I found ou...

A.   12 October 2005: I'd say no. The internet is an opportune time to recieve attention, especially if like your boyfriend you crave attention. Men and women love the fact that they can write the most startling things online that are not true and recieve the most ... (read in full...)

Taking off a little weight was my original goal. Now it's spun out of control and I just feel FAT!

Q.   Hi there, please help me! I'm a young woman of 20, size 10-12 clothes who used to be a bit larger and lost a lot of weight this year through being on the Atkins diet and taking some strong tablets which I had to come off because they made me ill a...

A.   12 October 2005: Firstly honey let me just say how brave you were to write this all down. I think you know what my advice is going to begin with and that is that you should go and talk to your doctor. What if I could tell you that what you are feeling right no... (read in full...)

How can I know for sure that we're in love?

Q.   How do I know if he is really in love with me? How do I know if I am really in love with him. We have been together for almost ten months and we are both crazy about eachother but how do i know if it is love or not? Also we have a 6 or 7 ye...

A.   12 October 2005: How can you define love? You can listen to all the cliches on tv and in books, such as does he make your heart flutter? Do you get butterflies in your tummy? Does your heart skip a beat? I believe love is feeling comfortable with someone, Not bein... (read in full...)

I still care for my daughter's husband, but he's been in jail for a while...

Q.   I am in love with my daughter's father who is in jail. He's been in jail for about a year now, and during this whole time I have been faithful to him, but I am now having feelings for my childhood friend whom I have known for 10 years. What should I ...

A.   12 October 2005: Firstly let me congrtulate you on being a brave single mum with not an ounce of bitterness in your letter. There comes a time when you have to decide if your life is just a little too precious to put on hold. When your ex boyfriend was breaking the ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend right, that "all blokes watch porn"?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend has always watched porn and I only have a problem with it because it makes me feel inadeqaute. Is it normal for all men to watch porn? (he is 34) I am particularly worried now because he has just set up the internet and I k...

A.   28 September 2005: The answer is not just that men watch porn, a lot of women do to, and it's perfectly normal. People do seem to have a hang up about whether or not they are inadaquate if their partner watches porn and this is a waste of time. Why start to doubt ... (read in full...)

The guy wasn't interested when he was single, but he is now, since he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

Q.   Dear Cupid, About 5 months ago I told a guy that I really liked him but he turned my down and exclaimed that we should just be friends. I told him that I had got the wrong impression and he was giving me false signals. Now he tells me that he...

A.   28 September 2005: Ever heard the sayings 'Grass is always greener' or 'you never know what you've got till it's gone' or maybe the most important 'you want to have your cake and eat it' This guy is stringing you along honey. He didn't want to commit to you befo... (read in full...)

Anyone got any really wild sexual suggestions for me and my boyfriend?

Q.   Hello, I know this might not be the best place to ask a question like this but I'm needing some help! I have been in a relationship for a number of years, and we have always had great bedroom chemistry. After a few years I guess you grow out of ...

A.   28 September 2005: How about teasing. When he comes home and sees you on the bed with just squirty cream covering yout bits and maybe two cherries (one on each chest mound, or how about aranging to meet in a hotel or bar and pretending not to know each other but to ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of being on my own and I think that's making me too clingy with friends!

Q.   I have a problem which I experience a lot and it is that I'm just too dependant on everyone in my life. I hate being on my own and I feel so pathetic all the time because I need someone there to talk to or to do something with, as I get bored and ...

A.   28 September 2005: Firstly don't be so down on yourself. Going to University is a brave thing that not everyone could do! You also sound like you have a boyfriend and friends who don't seem to think you are that bad company to be around. Sometimes we just become a ... (read in full...)

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