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writes: HiI need some advice. I've currently been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I am very concerned as a few months ago I learnt from my boyfriend that he used to be in love with one of his female friends, Emma. He said that he asked her out but that she had said no; however, he refues to end his relationship with this girl. He won't introduce me to her, even though I've been asking him to for the past few months.He has photos and postcards from this girl and won't even speak to her in front of me. I feel really hurt and also have the feeling that even if it was before me, that something happened between them. How can I stop my jealousy? This is tearing us apart, but the way he speaks about this Emma is so diferent to the way he speaks about me. He slags me off and puts me down, yet this Emma apparently is perfect. I feel like nothing, also the worst thing is that when I'm out with my boyfriend, he stares at other women in front of me. The other night we went out with friends and another was all over him with her arms. He didn't do or say anything. This is all making me feel like nothing. Please help me anna
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2005): I can understand that you feel hurt by the way he is acting. I think you need to give him an ultimatum and tell him how his behaviour makes you feel, either he introduces you to this woman and stops putting you down or its over as you are worth more than that! I think you need to do this or it will continue to be hard and upsetting for you for a long time. If he truely loves you he will see that his current behaviour is totally unacceptable as it is making the woman he suposedly loves(you), feel horrible.
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