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writes:I. Love this girl sooo much and she says she loves. Me too. But like. She says she can't date me because her family wouldn't approve.so now I'm sitting here in tears I'm asking her to let me talk to her parents about it and she says she's 100% sure about the answer... What do I do for us to be together? Reply to this Question
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reader, peacelovecandy +, writes (4 December 2011):
 Keep trying... I remember telling past boyfriends the similar things until they finally just reassured and pushed me far enough to ask about it. My parents ended up agreeing to anything I asked. She might just be scared and paranoid that they'll say no.
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (4 December 2011):
 IT would help if you could give us a little more information about why her parents wouldnt approve.
Is it your background?
Family?
Reputation?
Race?
Education?
Age difference? - is she much younger?
Or is it simply that they feel their daughter shouldnt be dating at all.
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (4 December 2011):
First, y do they not approave? Is it ur ethnicity or religious beliefs or some othe matter? Second, if u love this girl, gite for her. Im with u all the way there. Y lose out on ur loved one because her parents are being shallow and controlling? But its weird that she isnt willing to fight with u. She sounds like she is giving up. If I were u, I wouldbe upset that she isnt willing to fight for my love as well. Give me more info and I can help u out
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. She has decided that she does not want to ask her parents about this, and if she can't talk to her parents about being with you, they would unlikely be willing to listen to you anyway. I know you don't want to hear this, but she has made her decision and she has decided that she wants to make her parents happy, and that is more important to her. All you can do is respect her decision and stop trying to convince her to be with you. I am sorry you are hurting so much, but you have to face the situation that she is not going to be with you. Take care of yourself, and work on healing from this heartbreak.
Good Luck.
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