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Teachers, eh? Discerning between teenage crushe and actual love!

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Article - (17 August 2008) 5 Comments - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey!

I left school about a good couple of months ago and at frist i felt like my world was ending because of this teacher who i was never gonna see again, but in reality it is jst begining and id like to write somethin for girls who may think that they love their teachers!

Hey all!

My 6th year at school, i decided, was going to be the best - the girl who was always around the teacher that i fancied would no longer be there and basically i wanted to mekae sure i left school with a bang! lol

So it cam and she left and to be honest, 6th year was the best year at school i have had.

What made it so great was my friends, my subject choices and the dumbass teachers that provided me and my mate with barrells of laughs all year round. However, it would be a lie to say that he made it one hell of a year too.

Maybe it is essential for us to all have a lil crush on someone who is outta bounds, who is untouchable to us and who we dream of being with. I say this as it then lets us dream and imagine and we want to do things that we wouldnt of ever thought or dreamt about doing, so really, our real selves come out dont they?

So yes, I think a girl, or a boy no matter how old they are or even the teacher is extremley old, they shouldnt be ashamed of facning a teacher, i think its good for us all. it makes us happy, we do better academically in their classes and we all round perform better!

however, you think you love them but you dont really. Im not being mean its coming from someone who has been their and done it like 2 month ago! i swore that i loved him, i used to come on this website every day after school and declare my undyin love for him, however, now that i havent seen him i think my feeling maybe weaering thin, i dont care about not seeing him again, in fact i dont care about him at all. I have been so much happier now that i have left school, sure i would go bk anyday, bcoz school days are really the best days of your lives, but, the things he said to me and the promises he made jst makes me laugh now, i have finally realised that the world doesnt revolve around this guy he isnt the one who i truely love, he was jst some guy who would chat to mwe for ages on end, he was someone who would laugh at me silly jokes, he was someone who made me laugh, he was someone who made me smile when i ewas feeling down and who told me i was amzing : but isnt tht wht friends are for? exactly. im happy with my life the way it is and since my departure from school- it cant get any better ;)

so please dont get too worked up about teachers, its all a waste of time, honestly.

well farewell dearcupid!

you have been amazing and thankyou for everyone who listened to me go on for hours on end about him.

We all need to grow up sometime dont we?

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

Well I've liked my teacher for a few years and I love him as a PERSON not really crush wise you know? But at the same time it is in a crush way but not in the "I'd do something with you" way. It's hard to explain but I do love him for what I know about him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

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Thanks for everyones feedback, It was a lie me puttin farewell on the website! i actually still log on and read peoples problems!

well if you guys are needin any help or if you want someone to listen to ya and give you advice of any kind then jst comment back on this problem and i shall send you my real name! XD

glad you guys liked it.

xx

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A female reader, HeartyGal Singapore +, writes (23 August 2008):

haha, you are so cool..i shall save this for future ref too. Almost reaching a stage where i'm laughing at myself too. Mine's not a crush, but there's always an end if you put your heart to it..lol

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (19 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntI'll save this article for future reference.

Thanks for putting your thoughts here!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

Yr lucky there all old and cranky at our school

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