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Taking responsibility for your own actions when you suddenly become pregnant...

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Question - (6 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *israble writes:

i'm wondering how many other people are getting sick and tired of these whiny "ADULTS" saying "oh no! im pregnant/she's pregnant, what am i going to do, how did this happen, please please help me, im so confused." ok here i'll tell you what happen and what your next step is... ok one day while you and bf/gf were in the library studying someone opened a window, a strong gust of wind blew your research paper all over the room. you got up to pick it up and when you did you snagged your pant on the chair and ripped them off, which caused you to fall. your laying on the floor naked and gf/bf rushed over to help you and slipped too, and landed right on top of you. the next day you realize you period is 30 minutes late, and the world stops spinning, OMG you/she must have got pregnant falling on each other. now what are you going to do this has to be a mistake everybody knows that as "ADULTS" we only make responsilbe decisons and we know what we're doing, so this can't be happening. we're to young, in school, not ready, blah blah blah. Bullshit people grow up, you know what you are doing and we all know that boy+girl=sex, and sex=pregnancy. you can prevent it if you choose to but if not thats your problem. now what are you going to do BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS. take care of the life you chose to create, you are an adult remember.

Before you start sending me messages about how mad you are and that you disagree let me tell you this. I am 26 years old and i have a 10 year old son, add it up people. And that was my second pregnancy. my first was at 15, had a miscarriage and almost died. i knew what i was doing when i did it and i knew the consequences. i did it any way. just like everybody else. you made your bed now lie in it. take responsibilty for your actions, the only thing you are doing is making yourself look bad and proving that your are an irrresponsible parent before the child's even born. deal with your action like the "ADULT" your supposed to be.

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A female reader, miss fit United Kingdom +, writes (7 May 2007):

DAMN right!! i am only a teenager who just happens to want a career in medicine when i'm older but i seem to know more than these, ahem, "adults" when its comes to human biology and have also noticed that there is one common answer to all of the pregnancy related problems- get a bloody test! i feel sorry for there future kids when they ask "mummy, why did you have me when you were 14?" and they look down at them and say" well, mummy was quite the skank whore when she was younger".

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007):

Superb! You sound such a well-balanced adult yourself.

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