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writes:I have just started high school and for the first time in my life have had to make new friends.I have never done this before and now I have a couple of friends, but I still can't stop stressing about them.I constantly fear that they're all going to ditch me and go off with other people, or they secretly don't like me and just hang out with me in pity.Two of my friends have been best-friends for life, so you sort of feel left out if your with both of them at the same time.My other friend is really nice, but her best friend from primary school has come to the same school, fortunately she's not in the same class as us both, but she walks home with us, and she is the most horribly annoying person I have ever met.The last one tends to sometimes go off with other people, so you can never be to sure that he's always going to be around.I know it sounds stupid that I have constant fears of stuff happening with them, but I just suddenly panic about something and I can't focus on something the teacher, or my friend is saying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2012): Relax! I would suggest making lots of friends. That way if you lose some for one reason or another you still have more. I wouldn't just rely on one tight-knit friendship group, the more friends the better!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2012):
 This is all part of growing up and joining high school. There is no point me telling you not to worry because you are going to anyway. But I think you should just take a day at a time. Remain friendly and upbeat, don't be horrible to any of them or talk about them behind there back. All you can do is be good friends to them and hope for the best. It's all you can do on your side. The more friends you can make the easier. So just remember to be friendly and bubbly to everyone you meet.
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