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Straight to the point or round the houses?

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Question - (13 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What is a better way of getting laid with someone: playing mind games or asking out straight away?

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

AngelofLove agony auntIf you really liked someone, How would you feel if they had played mind games with you?

It messes with your mind and they could be having fun!At your expense.

Playing games is not cool. If you meet someone that just wants sex with you, tell them that is all you are after.

Even then, if you carry on seeing them it is possible that one of you will want more than just sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

It isn't fair to play mind games with someone. They might like you but once you start playing mind games with them they might change their mind. If you like someone it is much better just to ask them out.

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A female reader, SexKitten69 United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

SexKitten69 agony auntHi, i don't think you should be playing mind games that's just not fair!! And it can be very offensive to ask just straight out.

I think you have to chat and there needs to be a connection before anything else will happen, pay complements to her and get to know her.

It's not just about scoring for the sake of it!!

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