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writes:I broke up with my ex 3months ago.But we still keep in touch.He lives overseas and has an adopted child here.I help him with stuffs relating to the child and me and the babygirl are very close now.She is adorable and I love her.But I still have feelings for him and I think I shoud stop keeping in touch with him so that I can get over him but I don't know if I have to do the same with the girl. As a matter of fact she has my no and we live in the same neighborhood and I don't know how I can be able to do that. what would you do if you were me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): i think you can have a separate relationship - with the adopted daughter - its down to you so long as you know there are borders etc.
that's what i would look for...maybe ask him- if he says no....then NO...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): best way to move on is to find someone else. easier said than done i know. how do u know you still have feelings for him when he lives overseas? you may just have an image of him as what you want. its helped me to think there is no chance and to think of everything wrong with the other person and how they arent right for you. you may always have feelings for your ex but you might find someone where you will have stronger feelings for. feelings unfulfilled fade with time. if leaving this child alone makes you unhappy then probably dont. just hang in there. find an interest or hobby you can be preoccupied with maybe.
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