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writes: Been with my boy for 4 years and a half now. Living alone and not buying the idea of having him move in in my own house. He says he doesn't like some aspects of my personality and, after all these years, I still don't feel him as being "family", if you know what I mean. I love him, of course I do, but his commitment-phobia really puts me off, his not wanting to get married or have kids really does put me off. Still, I like being with the guy. Here's the catch, though. A collegue from work who doesn't know I have a bf and whom I've known for a few years now asked me out and made it pretty clear he would like to start dating me. I like this guy, I really do. But I got a bf. I told my colleage I'd think about going out to dinner with him- only I wouldn't want my bf to find out (I know, not very honest...). What should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Don't do it.
If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, then break it off cleanly. If you don't do this, break it off cleanly, you are using your boyfriend.
People don't like being used.
What would you like to be treated like....?
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reader, Agonized  +, writes (8 October 2010):
I say get rid of your bf while you don't have any ties. Marriage and relationships are hard enough and only get harder with time. It sounds like you have a wonderful opportunity! I think you should pursue it! Maybe just try it out for awhile :)
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